And yes, I’m having me some wine, too!
I must be getting old because I’ll tell ya—a five-day work-week is just waaaaayyyyy too long. It’s Thursday night and I’m feeling like that should be plenty, thank you very much. Sigh. I’m so weary of work getting the best part of me. The remainder of my evenings, I’m just toast. Brain dead.
It must have been very doable for the men of the ‘50s, ‘60s, and ‘70s (and probably all those decades before) to come home from work to housewives who put dinner on the table and took care of the “home front.” I can’t even imagine how nice that would be.
I also have a hard time contemplating what it was like when I did this with a young child—and a number of years as a single mom. I was younger. There was definitely more energy then. (But still, as always, a lot of stress).
Since the new year, work has been a little different. I haven’t been as inundated with the constant pressure of marketing proposals as I was for months on end (at least so far), and I’ve even had a few projects that have been rather fun. For instance, our HR folks are hosting booths at various upcoming job fairs (to recruit new and younger blood) and I’ve been creating artwork panels for our tradeshow booth. I’ve really enjoyed it! I’m no graphic artist by any stretch of the imagination, but I do have some“know-how” in a basic sense and I’ve sure enjoyed being able to immerse myself in Adobe InDesign and take a break from that hateful, rot-gut, godawful Microsoft Word. These are 23” x 48” panels for our tradeshow booth:


I picked up the final prints (printed on a cool vinyl media with Velcro backing) tonight on my way home from work and I’m really pleased (and relieved!) with how well they turned out. This was definitely an enjoyable undertaking.
Part of my “whine” issue is that I have a new boss. My interim boss (after they let my MARKETING boss go last September) retired at the end of the year and I miss him terribly! He wasn’t a “boss” in the true sense of the word—basically he just approved my time sheet every week. But he was a vital and long-term part of the company (a very senior guy) whom I truly adored and felt very comfortable sitting down and venting with him or just shooting the breeze. Yeah, he had some old-school points of view, but we connected so well and had such mutual respect for each other. I really miss the sweet ol’ guy. I have worked with my “new” boss on many proposals in the past (he’s out of our Portland, Oregon office so he’s not someone I can pow-wow with here in Seattle regularly) and he’s a good guy, but very much the consummate “ENGINEER.” Which…isn’t necessarily a good thing when it comes to communicating, listening (on his part!), or looking at the big picture (me) as opposed to obsessing over ridiculous details (him). He is typical with these engineers I’ve dealt with since 1980 — they DON’T listen, they DON’T read, they jump to idiotic conclusions that wouldn’t be necessary if they DID listen or read. I see a whole lot of head>>desk scenarios in my future. Already happening.
I do have an assistant these days, although she only works Thursdays and Fridays. She is super—I feel so fortunate that we found such a perfect match, and my previous (now-retired-and-beloved) old boss totally saw how perfect she was and made her a priority hire. MY goal is to groom her to take my place when I retire. (In 2-1/2 years!!!!) I’m also trying to educate my “new” boss that, uhm no, she is NOT an administrative assistant. She is a marketer and a technical editor and don’t expect her to make your travel arrangements. It’s not a position that “any damned monkey can do.”
Sigh.
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The latest at Harstine! The (poor) excavator guy has had to haul MULTIPLE truckloads of dirt out of the dig site (to our neighbors’ undeveloped site that John cleared a sizable area for this purpose, with permission!). To be clear about this: My John is actually the “general contractor.” The guy I refer to as Contractor-John is the project manager, and he’s regularly at the site overseeing the subcontractors since MY John can’t be there to do all that overseeing (since he has a full-time job). So anyhow, Contractor-John sent a few more pictures today.

Doesn’t this one (below) look like our camping trailer is a precarious oasis?

I’m looking forward to feeling excited about the progress. So far I feel like our pristine plot of paradise has been raped.